Wednesday, February 08, 2006

Sorry for being so late for this post...nothing much to say... just busy at office and dealing with problems on personal front... problems... or may be life is just showing its worst for me... dont know what lies next... still i am going on ... dont know how long will it last... or may be its just the same as usual... in hostel days when one frnd told me that he lied to me once but now he is truthful to me i didnt knew whether to be happy for future or sad for being fooled for feelings... for betrayal.. yes, betrayal... no reciprocation for ur feelings... for love and care u show... and who has more love and care for u than ur parents... even they r fooled, betrayed by human beings whom they love most... i always thought its the parent who r at fault who being unable to teach values, unable to convey their likes, their love gets hurt... but is it so?.... obedience has been easy to me... mostly due to interest in everything and nothing... but i know its not the same for all... but is it that hard that few of us r ready to break the most of our parents... those two ppl who sacrificed so much for us... i know they did it for their interest but doesnt that interest always concides with our interest... still...i dont understand when i see ppl who believe themselves to be good doing such things... going against their parents wishes... love, love, love ... this is what we cry out all our lives... still we fail to understand it... or is it really different for all... may be i was brought up with wrong lessons... always asked to care for other's feelings... never to hurt them... feelings, feelings alone decide the course... what else is the truth of world if not feelings ppl have... and what for we exist if we dont reciprocate them...

15 comments:

dreamz_verity said...

Parents always give rite advice and values as they experienced a lot in life.
They experienced it because when they were like us they mite not followed wht their parents values and faced the consequences.Life mite have taught them the lessons.
For their child ,either they follow the tested values or they experience by themselves and then learn.Choice depend upon them.

exasparater said...

what i thought was exactly said by "dreamz_verity"...
experience makes oneself to reach perfection...they experienced it and so they dont wanna us to go in wrong path...

really nice post!!! kudos to u...

shobhna said...

problems will go away, they r just there for passing.

parents always try to teach there kids what they think is the best for them. and usually after a while kids learn too see it too.

Hiren Shah said...

The issue is not only about teaching values but being able to implement those values in all circumstances and at all times which is a different ballgame altogether.
As for hurting feelings, it should not happen but that is more an exception than the rule. One has to brace oneself for it as one goes through life.

Gangadhar said...

welcome back,Soumya!!!
All the best

@$#!$# said...

i do not know about experience...but i know if experience is what teaches u to be crappy with the people u love, whose feelings u must not trample upon, then to hell with such experience...

its better to be immature n happy rather than maturing n creating a mess, thinkin others will be happy

exasparater said...

tnx....

exasparater said...

but why u took long time to reply me...

Rohit Talwar said...

You wrote after really long! All the best!

The Soul Doctor said...

welcome back soumya. wish you all the very best. We fellow bloggers are with you in your tough times.

karthik

exasparater said...

time for new post!!!

Alka said...

You care so much about things and people. Hope most of the time you get the same good feeling reciprocated. That kind of life is a blessing. Time to write a new post.

simplemissie said...

It's strange ur name is also soumya dev...so i had to change the name of my blog

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